Source: Matteo Paclotti |
Knowing man’s tendency to fixate on the bad, I try to avoid the news. I try, but stories of war, corruption, greed
and immorality often outsmart my sloppy evading techniques. No matter what I
do, the depressing headlines find me. They tell me that people are constantly
dying of starvation, that hate speech is ‘telling it like it is’ and that religiosity,
the only thing I know to be beautiful and good, is a filthy illness of backward
people. They tell it over and over and over until I can see little else but
gloom. It’s no wonder people are losing their faith. I get it. Life has little meaning
if this mess is all there is.
But that’s the very thing we lose
sight of at times when we need it the most. Is
this all there is? We experience this world around us with our eyes and ears and
it all just seems so sharp and real. So real we often forget; this isn’t all
there is at all.
There is another life and it is
longer and more potent than anything we go through now. A tiny taste of the
Hellfire will make all life’s pleasures disappear and just a touch of Paradise
will make someone forget anything unpleasant they ever experienced.
When we look around us, we think we
know what we’re seeing. This person is winning, this person is losing. This
person is suffering, this person is having fun. This person is loved by
everyone and this person is a loser. That’s the vision of someone whose
knowledge is limited to their own senses and intellect. But when we look with knowledge
from the Creator of the life to come, what will we begin to see?
The Prophet (SAW) asks his
companions one day, “Who do you think is
the childless among you?” The companions give the most obvious answer, “Those who don’t have any children.” How
could it be anything else? And yet the Messenger (SAW) tells them, “No. The childless are those who haven’t
sent any of their children ahead.” The companions had answered according to
the reality they could see in front of them but the Prophet (SAW) told them to
look forward, to look to the next life. You may see someone in sadness,
devastated because they’ve lost their beautiful child. And then you see another
playing with their little one happily. It’s upsetting. Your senses are telling
you that the first is worse off than the second. Use the sight Allāh gave you through knowledge and look again. One’s future is uncertain, their child has yet to grow and make decisions that will lead them to a life of bliss or torment. The other? They have an innocent child waiting for them, absolutely free of sin and ready to take hold of their clothing and lead them into Paradise. Isn’t that a different picture of hardship?
Source: Kentama |
Another time the Messenger of Allāh (SAW)
asks his companions, “Do you know who the
bankrupt one is?” They answer, “The
one who doesn’t have any wealth or property.” Again the Prophet (SAW) gets
them to take a step back and look at things differently. He tells them the
bankrupt one is someone who had the kind of wealth that mattered (prayer,
fasting, charity) but he had no respect for the rights of other people. He
insulted them, slandered them, took their money and hurt them and so he lost everything. On the Day of Judgement, all
his good deeds got given out to those he abused until he had nothing left. Then
they got to unload all of their sins
onto him and he was thrown into the
Fire. We see tyrants, abusers and bullies all the time. They get their power,
respect and wealth all at the expense of others and it just seems so unfair. With your new sight look at them
again. Look as everything they thought they earned in good deeds gets
distributed out and, instead of raising their ranks, raises the people that
they hurt instead. Look as this person has everyone’s junk thrown on them until
they fall. Who’s got status now?
The world around us bombards us with
a YOLO (You Only Live Once) perspective where sin is blissful freedom and
religion is unnecessarily difficult or foolish. When we look to society, morality
is what brings people pleasure. As long as you can’t see the harm you’re doing
to others, it’s OK. Those who act upon the guidance of God seem boring, old
fashioned and unpopular. Look again with the perspective of the next life.
Who’s enjoying themselves? Who’s free to do whatever they want? Who does
everyone want to be associated with? People may be mocking us now but Allāh
tells us the believers will be the ones having the last laugh.
Every bit of difficulty we go
through to please Allāh will be a source of reward for us. One time the
Messenger (SAW) slaughtered a sheep and distributed the majority of it. He
asked his wife what was left and she answered, “Nothing except the shoulder.” He replied with his vision on the
life to come, “All of it is left except
the shoulder.” Anything we sacrifice here for the sake of Allāh is an
investment into our eternal life. It may
seem like an initial loss in effort, money, time, comfort, pleasure… but it’s
ultimately a whopping big gain. Certainly more so than what we cling on to and
we’ll miss out if we can’t look ahead and see that.
This life is just a passing moment
in our existence. What’s any number of years compared to an eternity? Looking at this world alone, it
hurts. Things seem bleak, unfair and confusing. But as Muslims we can learn to
see more than what is in front of us. Our unbelievable steadfastness in staying
optimistic and doing good comes from our belief in a merciful Creator, comes from our knowledge that there is another life
to come. Justice will be served and efforts will be rewarded. We just
need to put on the right glasses to see it.
Source: Helen Cassidy |
Children of Jannah (Support for those who have lost a child)
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I can definitely relate to the beginning. I've always tried to avoid the news as it's filled with so much negativity (especially towards Muslims) and I'd find myself feeling embarrassed. However I'm now trying to overcome this and change my perspective on the way I view things so this article was perfectly timed!
ReplyDeleteSuch an important reminder. It's about keeping the right perspective throughout this life. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThe way things are going in society these days it's hard *not* to let worldly affairs affect the way we feel. Even when you think you've sheltered yourself from it, a news headline or Facebook message can quickly upset your mood. Al'hamdulillah this post really helped to remind me not to stress life through keeping the big picture in mind. I pray Allah makes us of those who view this world through the lenses of the next world.
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